When a relationship ends, one of the most emotionally charged issues is deciding where the children will live and how parenting responsibilities will be shared. In New South Wales, parenting arrangements are guided by the Family Law Act 1975, with the child’s best interests as the top priority.
What Are Parenting Arrangements?
Parenting arrangements cover where children live, how much time they spend with each parent, and how major decisions (like education and healthcare) are made. These can be:
- Informal agreements between parents
- Parenting plans (written but not legally enforceable)
- Consent orders (approved by the court)
- Parenting orders (made by the court if parents can’t agree)
Key Principles in NSW
Equal shared parental responsibility is the starting point, but not always the outcome.
The court considers factors like the child’s relationship with each parent, safety, and the ability of each parent to meet the child’s needs.
There is no automatic preference for mothers or fathers—each case is assessed individually.
Common Myths Debunked
Myth: “Mothers always get custody.”
Fact: The court focuses on the child’s best interests, not the gender of the parent.
Myth: “Children can choose where to live.”
Fact: A child’s views may be considered, but they are not the sole deciding factor.
How Bell Lawyers Can Help
We work with you to create practical, child-focused arrangements—whether through negotiation, mediation, or court proceedings. Our goal is to reduce conflict and support long-term co-parenting success.
Let’s work together to give you the best possible chance of reaching a fair and lasting resolution. Call us today on (02) 4734 9333 or reach out via our contact page.
If you’re looking for dedicated mediation services, visit our partner practice Bell Mediation, offering professional family dispute resolution tailored to your unique situation.



